How to Use a Kegel Ball: A Beginner's Guide
By V-Unique South Africa | Published: 2026-08-30
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to use a kegel ball for stronger pelvic floor muscles. This beginner's guide covers choosing, inserting, and exercising with kegel balls safely.
Kegel balls, also known as Ben Wa balls or love balls, are small weighted spheres designed to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Regular use can improve bladder control, enhance sexual sensation, and aid postpartum recovery. If you're new to kegel balls, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from selecting the right set to performing exercises correctly.

At V-Unique South Africa, we offer a variety of kegel balls to suit different experience levels. Whether you're just starting or looking to intensify your workout, understanding how to use them properly is key to getting the most benefit and avoiding discomfort.
Why Use Kegel Balls?
Kegel balls are a proven tool for pelvic floor training. They add resistance to your kegel exercises, making them more effective than doing them without any equipment. Stronger pelvic floor muscles can lead to better bladder control, reduced risk of prolapse, and heightened sexual pleasure for both you and your partner.
Many women also use kegel balls to prepare for or recover from childbirth. However, it's important to consult your healthcare provider before starting any new exercise routine, especially if you have a medical condition or are recently postpartum.
- Improve bladder control and reduce incontinence
- Enhance sexual sensation and orgasm intensity
- Support postpartum recovery and pelvic health
Choosing Your First Kegel Ball
When selecting a kegel ball, consider the weight, size, and material. Beginners should start with lighter balls (around 30-40 grams) and smaller diameters for easier insertion and comfort. Silicone or medical-grade plastic are body-safe options that are easy to clean.
At V-Unique South Africa, you'll find kegel balls like the 'Kegel Ball' (a simple, weighted option) and more advanced sets with vibrating features. If you're new, start with a basic set and gradually progress to heavier or vibrating balls as your muscles strengthen.
- Start with a light, small kegel ball for comfort
- Choose body-safe materials like silicone or medical-grade plastic
- Consider a set with multiple weights for progression
Step-by-Step: How to Use a Kegel Ball
First, wash your hands and the kegel ball with warm water and mild soap. Apply a small amount of water-based lubricant to the ball and your vaginal opening to ease insertion. Find a comfortable position, such as lying down or squatting, and gently insert the ball into your vagina, similar to a tampon. Ensure it sits comfortably about one to two inches inside.
Once inserted, contract your pelvic floor muscles to hold the ball in place. Start by holding for 5-10 seconds, then relax. Repeat this contraction and release cycle for 10-15 minutes daily. As you get stronger, you can increase the duration and add movements like walking or squatting to increase the challenge.
- Always use a water-based lubricant for comfort
- Practice in a relaxed position initially
- Gradually increase the hold time and intensity
Tips for Getting the Most Out of Your Kegel Balls
Consistency is key. Aim to practice your kegel exercises with balls daily, but listen to your body. If you feel any pain or discomfort, stop and consult a professional. It's also important to clean your kegel balls after each use to prevent infections.
You can incorporate kegel balls into your daily routine by wearing them while doing household chores or light exercise. However, avoid wearing them for prolonged periods (more than a few hours) to prevent muscle fatigue.
- Clean your kegel balls before and after each use
- Start with short sessions and gradually increase
- Combine with other pelvic floor exercises for best results
Kegel balls are an excellent investment in your pelvic health and sexual well-being. By following this beginner's guide, you'll be on your way to stronger muscles and better overall health. Visit V-Unique South Africa to explore our range of kegel balls and start your journey today.



